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The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness
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THE INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER A Wall Street Journal Top 10 Book of 2024 A New York Times and Washington Post Notable Book One of Barack Obama's Favorite Books of 2024 A TIME 100 Must-Read Book of 2024 Named a Best Book of 2024 by the Economist, the New York Post, and Town & Country The Goodreads Choice Award Nonfiction Book of the Year Finalist for the PEN Literary Awards
A must-listen for all parents: the generation-defining investigation into the collapse of youth mental health in the era of smartphones, social media, and big tech—and a plan for a healthier, freer childhood.
“With tenacity and candor, Haidt lays out the consequences that have come with allowing kids to drift further into the virtual world . . . While also offering suggestions and solutions that could help protect a new generation of kids.” —Shannon Carlin, TIME, 100 Must-Read Books of 2024
After more than a decade of stability or improvement, the mental health of adolescents plunged in the early 2010s. Rates of depression, anxiety, self-harm, and suicide rose sharply, more than doubling on many measures. Why?
In The Anxious Generation, social psychologist Jonathan Haidt (pronounced "height") lays out the facts about the epidemic of teen mental illness that hit many countries at the same time. He then investigates the nature of childhood, including why children need play and independent exploration to mature into competent, thriving adults. Haidt shows how the “play-based childhood” began to decline in the 1980s, and how it was finally wiped out by the arrival of the “phone-based childhood” in the early 2010s. He presents more than a dozen mechanisms by which this “great rewiring of childhood” has interfered with children’s social and neurological development, covering everything from sleep deprivation to attention fragmentation, addiction, loneliness, social contagion, social comparison, and perfectionism. He explains why social media damages girls more than boys and why boys have been withdrawing from the real world into the virtual world, with disastrous consequences for themselves, their families, and their societies.
Most important, Haidt issues a clear call to action. He diagnoses the “collective action problems” that trap us, and then proposes four simple rules that might set us free. He describes steps that parents, teachers, schools, tech companies, and governments can take to end the epidemic of mental illness and restore a more humane childhood.
Haidt has spent his career speaking truth backed by data in the most difficult landscapes—communities polarized by politics and religion, campuses battling culture wars, and now the public health emergency faced by Gen Z. We cannot afford to ignore his findings about protecting our children—and ourselves—from the psychological damage of a phone-based life.
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- Listening Length10 hours and 32 minutes
- Audible release dateMarch 26 2024
- LanguageEnglish
- ASINB0C9MZL56D
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Listening Length | 10 hours and 32 minutes |
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Author | Jonathan Haidt |
Narrator | Sean Pratt, Jonathan Haidt |
Audible.ca Release Date | March 26 2024 |
Publisher | Penguin Audio |
Program Type | Audiobook |
Version | Unabridged |
Language | English |
ASIN | B0C9MZL56D |
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- Reviewed in Canada on July 1, 2025Verified PurchaseEvery parent and child educator should read this book. It has endless information and ideas.
- Reviewed in Canada on July 28, 2025Verified PurchaseThis book should be required reading for parents and educators. Like cigarettes, apps are designed to be addictive so more ad money can but earned a the expense of our children's mental health. The author makes it clear that we need to take action and we're already too late by nearly two decades.
- Reviewed in Canada on January 9, 2025Verified PurchaseA really nice overview of research and good recommendations for all parents and teachers. My only critique is that this book is so repetitive. "I'm going to tell you this. This. This said again with a few tweaks to the sentence.
This is what I told you two chapters ago. In sum, this. In conclusion, this." All of the information could have been provided in under 100 pages.
Still a very worthwhile read not only for parenting recommendations, but to help recognize our own unhealthy behaviours.
- Reviewed in Canada on July 31, 2025Verified PurchaseSuch a great read, should be required reading for parents
- Reviewed in Canada on July 16, 2025Verified PurchaseA must read.
- Reviewed in Canada on May 29, 2025Verified PurchaseThis might be the best book you'll ever read if you have kids in your life.
- Reviewed in Canada on May 12, 2025Verified PurchaseA must read for all parents on the downfalls of technology for our kids, from a parent who grew up free range as a member of Gen X that has watched her child struggle. I wish I had access to this information sooner.
- Reviewed in Canada on July 14, 2025Verified PurchaseAs a mental health professional seeing the mental health crisis in youth first hand, and as a tail end millennial who was just finishing high school when the smartphones and social media were becoming available 24/7, this book explains everything. And frankly, the stats are alarming on what constant phone and social media use does to youth in particular. Everyone needs to read this, for their own health, for the benefit of youth, and our future children. It forced me to take a long look at my use of social media and phones as well, despite being an adult, and it has improved my life as well.
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- Daniel BurtonReviewed in the United States on July 4, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Kids need to be social, not on social media
Verified PurchaseAfter finishing Jonathan Haidt’s The Anxious Generation, I couldn’t wait to recommend it to my family, friends, and others. I truly believe this book is a must-read for anyone with a smartphone, children, or, well, a pulse. Smartphones’ impact has been so fast and pervasive in our culture that we are only beginning to understand how they are changing us.
Because of that, The Anxious Generation is one of the most important nonfiction books I have read this year, perhaps in several years. While many have expressed concern about the impact of mobile phones and social media on our youth, Haidt has made it his mission to uncover the symptoms, explain the effects, and convince us to change how we raise our kids regarding phones and social media.
The insights provided in The Anxious Generation make a compelling case for reevaluating the age at which we give our children phones, the extent of their Internet and social media access, and the value of free play. Haidt argues that smartphones, social media, and helicopter parenting have contributed to a decline in the mental well-being of young people. The book offers practical solutions crucial for fostering the emotional maturity and stability of our children and ourselves.
At the book’s center are four cultural norms Haidt argues we must implement to address the mental health crisis among our youth. These norms serve as a framework for his argument and practical solutions.
First, no smartphones before high school. Parents should delay children’s entry into round-the-clock internet access by giving them only basic phones (phones with limited apps and no internet browser) before ninth grade (roughly 14).
Second, no social media before 16. Let kids get through the most vulnerable period of brain development before connecting them to a constant stream of social comparison and algorithmically chosen influencers, which can significantly impact their self-esteem and mental health.
Next, phone-free schools. All elementary through high school, students should store their phones, smartwatches, and other personal devices to send or receive texts in phone lockers or locked pouches during the school day. This policy is crucial in creating a distraction-free environment that allows students to focus on their studies and social interactions.
And, last, far more unsupervised play and childhood independence. That’s the way children naturally develop social skills, overcome anxiety, and become self-governing young adults.
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“My central claim in this book is that these two trends—overprotection in the real world and underprotection in the virtual world—are the major reasons why children born after 1995 became the anxious generation.”
“People don’t get depressed when they face threats collectively; they get depressed when they feel isolated, lonely, or useless.”
“The two big mistakes we’ve made: overprotecting children in the real world (where they need to learn from vast amounts of direct experience) and underprotecting them online (where they are particularly vulnerable during puberty).”
“While the reward-seeking parts of the brain mature earlier, the frontal cortex—essential for self-control, delay of gratification, and resistance to temptation—is not up to full capacity until the mid-20s, and preteens are at a particularly vulnerable point in development”
“In this new phone-based childhood, free play, attunement, and local models for social learning are replaced by screen time, asynchronous interaction, and influencers chosen by algorithms. Children are, in a sense, deprived of childhood.”
“We don’t let preteens buy tobacco or alcohol, or enter casinos. The costs of using social media, in particular, are high for adolescents, compared with adults, while the benefits are minimal. Let children grow up on Earth first, before sending them to Mars.”
“Stress wood is a perfect metaphor for children, who also need to experience frequent stressors in order to become strong adults.”
“Children can only learn how to not get hurt in situations where it is possible to get hurt, such as wrestling with a friend, having a pretend sword fight, or negotiating with another child to enjoy a seesaw when a failed negotiation can lead to pain in one’s posterior, as well as embarrassment. When parents, teachers, and coaches get involved, it becomes less free, less playful, and less beneficial. Adults usually can’t stop themselves from directing and protecting.”
“By designing a firehose of addictive content that entered through kids’ eyes and ears, and by displacing physical play and in-person socializing, these companies have rewired childhood and changed human development on an almost unimaginable scale.”
“Gen Z became the first generation in history to go through puberty with a portal in their pockets that called them away from the people nearby and into an alternative universe that was exciting, addictive, unstable, and—as I will show—unsuitable for children and adolescents.”
“Over the course of many decades, we found ways to protect children while mostly allowing adults to do what they want. Then quite suddenly, we created a virtual world where adults could indulge any momentary whim, but children were left nearly defenseless. As evidence mounts that phone-based childhood is making our children mentally unhealthy, socially isolated, and deeply unhappy, are we okay with that trade-off? Or will we eventually realize, as we did in the 20th century, that we sometimes need to protect children from harm even when it inconveniences adults?”
“We are embodied creatures; children should learn how to manage their bodies in the physical world before they start spending large amounts of time in the virtual world.”
“One way that companies get more users is by failing to enforce their own rules prohibiting users under 13. In August 2019, I had a video call with Mark Zuckerberg, who, to his credit, was reaching out to a wide variety of people, including critics. I told him that when my children started middle school, they each said that most of the kids in their class (who were 10 or 11 at the start of sixth grade) had Instagram accounts. I asked Zuckerberg what he planned to do about that. He said, “But we don’t allow anyone under 13 to open an account.” I told him that before our call I had created a fake account for a fictional 13-year-old girl and I encountered no attempt to verify my age claim. He said, “We’re working on that.” While writing this chapter (in August 2023), I effortlessly created another fake account. There is still no age verification, even though age verification techniques have gotten much better in the last four years nor is there any disincentive for preteens to lie about their age.”
“Our kids can do so much more than we let them. Our culture of fear has kept this truth from us. They are like racehorses stuck in the stable.”
“Many of the best adventures are going to happen with other children in free play.
“And when that play includes kids of mixed ages, the learning is deepened because children learn best by trying something that is just a little beyond their current abilities— in other words, something a slightly older kid is doing. Older kids can also benefit from interacting with younger kids, taking on the role of a teacher or older sibling. So, the best thing you can do for your young children is to give them plenty of playtime, with some age diversity, and a secure loving base from which they set off to play.
“As for your own interactions with your child, they don’t have to be “optimized.” You don’t have to make every second special or educational.
“It’s a relationship, not a class. But what you do often matters far more than what you say, so watch your own phone habits. Be a good role model who is not giving continuous partial attention to both the phone and the child.”
- MonetteReviewed in Singapore on October 7, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars A very urgent, crucial read for every parent and educator.
Verified PurchaseMonetteA very urgent, crucial read for every parent and educator.
Reviewed in Singapore on October 7, 2024
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ismaelReviewed in Mexico on April 2, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars EXCELENTE LIBRO
Verified PurchaseEXCELENTE LIBRO, SE LO RECOMIENDO LEER A TODO MUNDO. PERO MAS A LAS PERSONAS QUE ESTEN INTERESADA POR LA SALUD DE LOS NIÑOS, Y A TODOS LOS PAPAS, MAESTRAS, MEDICOS. ETC.
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Laetitia Strauch-BonartReviewed in France on March 10, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars Une lecture indispensable
Verified PurchaseCe livre est à mettre entre toutes les mains. Il démontre et dénonce la catastrophe sanitaire suscitée par l'utilisation, chez les jeunes de la "génération Z", des smartphones et des réseaux sociaux. Une génération entière, privée de jeu "réel" et soumise à d'innombrables sollicitations "virtuelles" inadaptées à son immaturité cognitive, a été sacrifiée. Pour ne pas sacrifier les suivantes, écoutons Haidt et appliquons ses recommandations - dont celles-ci : pas de smartphone avant le lycée, pas de réseau social avant 16 ans, un usage contrôlé du téléphone.