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The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage (The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Series) Kindle Edition
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The #1 International Bestseller and Award Winner!
"REFRESHING... [Dilorenzo] doesn't shy away from controversy... In the inviting tone of a friend she urges readers toward being 'intentional' in intimacy and never taking it for granted. A compact, EASILY READABLE compilation of relationship advice with bursts of playful style." — Booklife by Publishers Weekly
“NO MATTER YOUR SEASON OF MARRIAGE… Alisa DiLorenzo has great suggestions for approaching your partner when you need to strengthen a particular intimacy. The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® is a GREAT SELECTION for readers who are ready to fortify their bond with their partner in a direct and loving approach.” — Readers’ Favorite
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Can you strengthen your bond, grow together, and enjoy deeper levels of love and intimacy that rival your newlywed days? And can you do any or all of that without having to digest mountains of self-help books, or pouring your hearts out to a total stranger in endless counseling sessions?
Yes, it is possible—and as you read, you’ll see how easy it can be!
Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are passionate about helping couples create their own extraordinary marriage. They do this through books, coaching, and through their #1 marriage podcast, “The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show” where they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world.
Their newest book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage, is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve. They have learned some hard knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and they did it together. Let them do the same for you!
Inside, you’ll discover:
- The six intimacies (pillars), and how to use them.
- That, if the pillars are solid and straight, they will keep your marriage thriving and ensure everything goes along smoothly, and how to do this.
- How, if the pillars become damaged, your marriage can start to collapse.
- The author’s real-life story, experience, and relationship struggles.
- And more.
Even the best marriages can have cracks in their relationships. The difference is that extraordinary couples take action when they see those cracks happening.
Get The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® today to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire and deserve.
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🥇2024 Readers’ Favorite Gold Medal
⭐2023 Christian Indie Awards
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateOct. 24 2021
- File size2.5 MB

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- ASIN : B09K8YHNKV
- Publisher : ONE Extraordinary Marriage
- Accessibility : Learn more
- Publication date : Oct. 24 2021
- Language : English
- File size : 2.5 MB
- Simultaneous device usage : Unlimited
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 174 pages
- ISBN-13 : 978-0578991467
- Page Flip : Enabled
- Part of series : The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Series
- 鶹 Rank: #192,872 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #368 in Marriage (Kindle Store)
- #518 in Love & Romance (Kindle Store)
- #859 in Love & Romance (Books)
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About the authors
Alisa DiLorenzo is the 鶹 bestselling author of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage, 7 Days of Sex Challenge, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and 6 other titles. As a marriage coach, Alisa believes that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together.
Listen to her weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com, where nothing is off limits when it comes to the many aspects of marriage.
Alisa has been married to her incredible husband, Tony, for 27 years and together they have a son and a daughter. Alisa resides in San Diego, CA.
Tony DiLorenzo is the 鶹 bestselling author of 7 Days of Sex Challenge, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and other books. Tony believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together.
Listen to his weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com, where nothing is off limits when it comes to the many aspects of marriage.
Tony has been married to his beautiful wife, Alisa, for 25 years and together they have a son and a daughter. He lives in San Diego, CA.
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- Reviewed in Canada on July 19, 2024It is a guide for couples who seriously want to strengthen and improve their relationship over time. This book serves as a counselor for couples, available whenever they need help. Just read it and start working on the advice to see the transformation in the quality of your relationship and overall life. The authors thoroughly explain how the six pillars actually work to enhance relationships. They also provide helpful tools to reinforce these pillars, such as the "emotion wheel." Highly recommended for those who truly want to turn their marital bond into an extraordinary marriage.
- Reviewed in Canada on June 22, 2024The 6 Pillars of Intimacy is a great and invaluable resource for couples looking to deepen their connection/strengthen their relationships. This book provides a comprehensive guide to a successful marriage/relationship by examining six key areas such as emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational and sexual. Tis holistic approach is insightful and practical for building a resilient marriage. The content (which is easy to read/digest), is layered with wisdom nuggets that are both handy and timeless. This is a highly recommended resource!
- Reviewed in Canada on February 5, 2024"The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage" is a transformative guide that offers couples a clear and practical approach to deepening their connection and rejuvenating their relationship. Drawing from the authors' extensive experience and personal journey, this book illuminates the essential aspects of building a strong, lasting marriage. With its insightful exploration of the six pillars of intimacy, it provides readers with the tools needed to repair, strengthen, and maintain a thriving partnership. A must-read for any couple looking to enhance their marital bond, this book is a roadmap to achieving an extraordinary marriage filled with love, understanding, and joy.
- Reviewed in Canada on July 8, 2025Verified PurchaseA really good book to read to work through various aspects of marriage.
- Reviewed in Canada on February 6, 2024This book is a total eye-opener! It breaks down intimacy in ways I never considered, way beyond the physical. The authors' conversational style feels like chatting with a wise friend, making complex ideas simple. Following their actionable steps has already started to transform my marriage. A must-read for any couple looking to deepen their connection
- Reviewed in Canada on February 24, 2024In 'The 6 Pillars of Intimacy,' you will discover the essence of true intimacy that goes beyond physical connection. Alisa, co-host of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, looks into the essential components of a successful marriage, providing a hands-on, interactive lesson packed with relatable examples and actionable steps. She emphasizes in a conversational and engaging manner that revealing all sides of oneself with a partner is essential for a strong bond. This important and powerful book, a must-read for parents and anyone seeking deeper connection, provides a framework that resonates with lovers of works such as '5 Love Languages' and 'Marriage on the Rock,' bringing inspiration and insight to couples worldwide."
- Reviewed in Canada on November 5, 2021Learning about the 6 pillars has greatly impacted our marriage. The understanding that when there is a crack or break in one, it affects the other pillars. We have been solid in some areas, and other areas need more attention. Easy to read. The foundation of your marriage needs to be strong. Set yourself up for a marriage that will stand the tests that this world throws at you. Commit to being intentional.
- Reviewed in Canada on November 4, 2021Verified PurchaseThe authors share the principles of the 6 pillars of intimacy - Emotional Intimacy, Physical Intimacy, Financial Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy, Recreational Intimacy, & Sexual Intimacy
The authors share their difficulties they faced in marriage and worked on fixing them. This is a great book for anybody who is getting married, married, or having challenges within the marriage. It allows you to look at the areas in the marriage that are challenging and what needs to be worked through. Included in the book are several questions that allow for a stronger reflection and connection with your marriage & your spouse.
Top reviews from other countries
- MayReviewed in Germany on November 5, 2021
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read For Every Couple!
Verified PurchaseTony and Alisa really nail the foundations for building a strong and healthy marriage, or a long-lasting and stable relationship. I quote: "Change starts with you, but it takes two to completely transform a marriage."
In a culture where things and people are more often replaced when broken, rather then mended, this book is an eye opener for couples willing to put in the effort and make it work. I also appreciate the way the authors share examples from their own marriage. Very highly recommended.
- JeremyReviewed in Australia on September 17, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Intentional Relationships...
Verified PurchaseIt's easy to let things drift in a relationship. It's easy to go through the motions. This book – as the title suggests – helps you become intentional about your marriage (or committed relationship) by focusing on six key relationship pillars: emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, financial intimacy, spiritual intimacy, recreational intimacy and sexual intimacy. The book is full of practical tips, is written in an easy-to-read, clear style, and is bound to help struggling relationships and improve ones that are already going strong.
- gdReviewed in the United States on June 13, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars Helped a lot
Verified PurchaseI was really struggling with anxiety in our marriage. I knew something was killing me inside but just couldn't figure out what. This book gave a lot of clarity on why I was feeling so many things. I have have been making small steps to be more present. It hasn't been long but I can see the small changes in how we interact.
- wjmsReviewed in the United Kingdom on March 19, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Very well written primer
Verified PurchaseThis book poses a series of questions, it encourages self-reflection and also reflection with your partner. The six pillars concept works, and works well. I admit, I was sceptical about a couple of the pillars, but having read the book and given it some time to sink in, they are very valid ones. I liked the sections ‘What can I do?’ And ‘What can we do?’ Which were presented for each of the pillars. I am sure that almost every couple will have a few cracks in their pillars; this book explains how to identify these, fix them, and strengthen them. Well-written and well worth the 5/5 stars I have given it. Recommended reading for every (married) couple.
- Frederick KnightReviewed in the United Kingdom on June 27, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing book!
Verified PurchaseThis is truly one of best and most value books I’ve read this year. Having been married for 10years it’s true to say that my wife and I had lost our ‘spark’. This book has allowed us to work on ourselves and on those things that really matter. We would definitely recommend this book!