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An essential set of tools and principles for healing your heart, finding love, and loving life.

Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear of getting left behind, and finding the love we want.

Sometimes it feels like life and love are working against us. Just finding someone we like can be a struggle. Even when we do, we often find they’re not ready, or they want different things. Then there are the internal fears and anxieties that lead us to self-sabotage—that make us indulge the wrong behavior in others, hold back from expressing our needs for fear of losing someone, or overinvest in people and lose ourselves in the process. Love Life sheds light on these common patterns and how to overcome them, by showing us how to adopt new standards, elegantly communicate them, and develop the deepest levels of confidence that underpin them. Like many of us, Hussey has gone through major life changes over the past decade, and he opens up about his experiences, vulnerabilities, and mistakes.

Love Life is about doing love better. More than a book about romantic relationships, Love Life shows us how to take control of each of the major relationships in our lives: our relationship with others, our relationship with ourselves, and our relationship with life itself.

Our love lives have the power to elevate or eradicate the adjacent joy in our lives. Love Life sets you on the path to finding the love of your life, while deepening your love for life.


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“Vulnerable, honest, and witty, this book is my number one recommendation for anyone looking for love. Matthew’s unique voice is one I return to again and again for both my confidence and my love life, and this book is perfect for anyone looking for actionable wisdom and a path to reconnecting with themselves. Love Life is a gift we all deserve!”  — Drew Barrymore, actor, talk show host, writer, producer, business owner, and mom

“Matthew has written an insightful and practical guide to more compassionately understanding the deeper traumas that our relationships often reveal. Love Life can help each of us build a more fulfilling relationship with ourselves and all those around us.” — Dr. Nicole Lepera, author of number one New York Times bestselling books How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek

“Whether you’re struggling with negative dating patterns, healing from heartbreak, or looking to create lasting confidence, this book is a must-read. It’s an essential guide not just for those looking for love, but also for those who want to find happiness even while on the search for it.” — Mel Robbins, host of the award-winning The Mel Robbins Podcast

“Matthew Hussey has written THE relationship book for everyone—searching, single, committed, or heartbroken! He has taken the antiquated “rules” and elevated the quest for relationships into a quest for self. This book is not a simplistic recipe for finding love, but an authentic road map for being accountable to ourselves. Follow the guidance in this book, and you will have the tools to steer clear of unhealthy relationships, squelch those voices that tell you that you are not enough, give yourself permission to speak your truth, and find the magic within you.” — Ramani Durvasula, PhD, clinical psychologist, author of It’s Not You, and Professor Emerita of Psychology at Cal State LA

About the Author

Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hussey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper
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  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ April 23 2024
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 2.4 MB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
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  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 269 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0063294400
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Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community, Love Life Club. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. He lives in Los Angeles.

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I’ve been an avid follower of Matthew’s work for quite some years, and it is his approach to loving life that’s got me hooked right from the start. I’m so happy that I got to learn about this book before the end of 2023 and was able to preorder it and receive it right on the day of its release. I have only just started chapter 1 and I already know that it’s the kind of book that I will be going back to again and again, and each time it will touch my heart in a different way. Matthew has such a compassionate approach to coaching people on how to live and love life out loud and I appreciate that the emphasis is always back on us - our relationship with ourselves. While I want to binge read this book - I also want to take my time and savour each section of the book and really take it in. Highly recommend this book and Matthew’s work via his podcast, YouTube channel, and resources on his website. Lots of stuff that will make you feel “how refreshing” :)
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  • Reviewed in Canada on May 4, 2024
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    I’ve been an avid follower of Matthew’s work for quite some years, and it is his approach to loving life that’s got me hooked right from the start.

    I’m so happy that I got to learn about this book before the end of 2023 and was able to preorder it and receive it right on the day of its release. I have only just started chapter 1 and I already know that it’s the kind of book that I will be going back to again and again, and each time it will touch my heart in a different way. Matthew has such a compassionate approach to coaching people on how to live and love life out loud and I appreciate that the emphasis is always back on us - our relationship with ourselves. While I want to binge read this book - I also want to take my time and savour each section of the book and really take it in. Highly recommend this book and Matthew’s work via his podcast, YouTube channel, and resources on his website. Lots of stuff that will make you feel “how refreshing” :)
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    Reviewed in Canada on May 4, 2024
    I’ve been an avid follower of Matthew’s work for quite some years, and it is his approach to loving life that’s got me hooked right from the start.

    I’m so happy that I got to learn about this book before the end of 2023 and was able to preorder it and receive it right on the day of its release. I have only just started chapter 1 and I already know that it’s the kind of book that I will be going back to again and again, and each time it will touch my heart in a different way. Matthew has such a compassionate approach to coaching people on how to live and love life out loud and I appreciate that the emphasis is always back on us - our relationship with ourselves. While I want to binge read this book - I also want to take my time and savour each section of the book and really take it in. Highly recommend this book and Matthew’s work via his podcast, YouTube channel, and resources on his website. Lots of stuff that will make you feel “how refreshing” :)
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  • Reviewed in Canada on May 5, 2024
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    I signed up for Matt's exclusive VIP Course close to 1 year ago. Reading this wonderful creation is an additional attestment to his authenticity, kindness, compassion and how committed he is to helping others, not only in their love lives but in any relational experience or situation. I originally signed up for his course to improve my love life but what I got from his teachings (and this book) have made a huge impact in my life and have made me do a 180. I am truly grateful for his advice, how he expresses his ideas in a realistic and practical approach and how he allows himself to share parts of his life where he was not the 'perfect' guy most would have thought; he was and is human and like all humans, we make mistakes. I bought an extra copy to lend out to friends and family who can benefit and I truly recommend this read for anyone out there dealing with any type of relationship, especially the one with themselves. If I could give it a 10 stars, I would ✨️
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  • Reviewed in Canada on July 4, 2024
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    I’m not even finished with the book (80-90% done) and i couldn’t just wait to tell everyone how good this book is!

    There’s nothing here that you won’t already know, or won’t find on Matthew’s channel over the recent years of content. But this book is a beautifully packaged way to express that content.

    This book is the support system and the voice of reason that’s missing in your head when you’re dealing with any kinds of issues in your love life. It’s the soft voice saying it’s okay when you’re down. More than attracting the kind of love life you want, this book helps in feeling okay with yourself and your needs.
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  • Reviewed in Canada on April 29, 2024
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    I have been following Matthew's relationship advice for years, and I must say that I am amazed at how wise he is. He offers sound, thoughtful, and compassionate advice to those of us who want to succeed in the game of love. His advice is not about playing games, but more about understanding ourselves and others better in today's world. Thanks to him, I was able to navigate the online dating world and find a good man, and now I know how to keep my relationship happy. I am glad to have this book as a quick reference, but I will have to reread some chapters numerous times to have them sink in. There is so much wisdom and heart packed into this book."
  • Reviewed in Canada on May 1, 2024
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    I've followed Matthew Hussey for years. Not only has his advice helped me tremendously, but he has been an aspiration to me. Watching him grow on his YouTube channel has made me realize that I'm not alone on this crazy journey called life, but actually reading what went on back stage throughout all of those years has truly made me realize that we all do face similar challenges. Thank you Matthew for being so vulnerable and courageous to share your stories, knowledge, and experience with all of us so we can learn and grow together. To everyone who is on the fence, just get the book! It's years of experience bundled up in hours of reading. You won't regret it.
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  • Reviewed in Canada on April 26, 2024
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    I have been following Matthew Hussey for 7 years now, and read his first book " Get the Guy" and it was excellent but this blows any book out of the water for anyone wanting the nitty-gritty when it comes to setting your standards, sticking by them in order to attract the right people in your life, how to shine so bright that only the right people attract to you and how to love your life where you are at! This is the BEST book ever! Thank-you to Matthew for your hard work, dedication and blood sweat and tears on this amazing book that you clearly spent so much time on. Each Chapter shines like a diamond! Lisa Jeffrey
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    Reviewed in Canada on April 26, 2024
    I have been following Matthew Hussey for 7 years now, and read his first book " Get the Guy" and it was excellent but this blows any book out of the water for anyone wanting the nitty-gritty when it comes to setting your standards, sticking by them in order to attract the right people in your life, how to shine so bright that only the right people attract to you and how to love your life where you are at! This is the BEST book ever! Thank-you to Matthew for your hard work, dedication and blood sweat and tears on this amazing book that you clearly spent so much time on. Each Chapter shines like a diamond! Lisa Jeffrey
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  • Reviewed in Canada on May 1, 2024
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    I love this book, couldn't put it down! I have read and re-read so many parts of this book. I have been recommending it to everyone I know. Whether they are getting back into dating or have been in a relationship for a long time. There is so much valuable information in this book and Matthew makes it a very easy and understandable read. You wonder why you didn't think of this before, as so much of the information just makes that much sense!!
    I love this book, and love all the information he has to offer.
  • Reviewed in Canada on October 22, 2024
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    Very interesting book. Well organized and fun to read. It makes you reflect on how you show up in relationships and potentially puts some light on some of your blind spots. In never ceases to amaze me how we are prone to create stories, in relationships like any other situation. Worth a read for sure.

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  • Kathrin
    5.0 out of 5 stars Love Life - I love 💗 it
    Reviewed in Germany on January 15, 2025
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    I am following Matthew Hussey since his early days on YouTube. This book is not only packed with all his great dating advice but goes further, it is an entertaining, light , yet "deep" read for those who want to learn how to create the life they want.... And finding the right partner is rather the result of us already having created a life that we enjoy despite it often times being more fun if you can share moments with your loved one.
    Thanks Matthew Hussey for bringing so much love and positive energy into this world with truly great and yet realistic advice on how to create the life you want. 🙏💛
  • Mai
    5.0 out of 5 stars Bravo, Matthew!
    Reviewed in Australia on February 12, 2025
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    A book that makes each day a little brighter. Logical, warm, and wise. Matthew Hussey delivers again. Really happy to have read it.
  • AMZN GR8
    5.0 out of 5 stars Simply great book
    Reviewed in Belgium on October 13, 2024
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    Recommended
  • 鶹 Customer
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very good!
    Reviewed in Spain on June 27, 2025
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    Recommend for everyone. Not only for finding love, but just for boosting your confidence and have more clear view on relationships
  • Carrie W.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Love life and show some self-love by gifting yourself this awesome read
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 27, 2024
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    Wow, Matthew Hussey always delivers, whether it’s his insightful podcasts, informative videos and interviews or his fantastic stage interactions, his wisdom into love, life and how to raise your standards are spot on, exactly what you need to hear, such clarity, so effective. Lightbulb moments galore! Matthew’s insights really resonate.
    Treat yourself - and others - to this book. You won’t be disappointed. I highly recommended Matthew - in fact all of the Hussey family are fab and insightful - I love Stephen Hussey and Audrey Hussey’s insights too ❤️
    Read this, feel empowered.
    Matthew Hussey - you absolute gem, thank you for your dedication in writing this book and sharing your gifts with us ❤️ So many people will benefit from this most awesome read. Be one of them 💪🏻

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