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Delia Moss isn’t quite sure where she went wrong.

When she proposed and discovered her boyfriend was sleeping with someone else – she thought it was her fault.

When she realised life would never be the same again – she thought it was her fault.

And when he wanted her back like nothing had changed – Delia started to wonder if perhaps she was not to blame…

From Newcastle to London and back again, with dodgy jobs, eccentric bosses and annoyingly handsome journalists thrown in, Delia must find out where her old self went – and if she can ever get her back.

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‘Witty, sharp and giggle-inducing … This is modern and honest romantic fiction at its most accomplished’ HEAT

‘If you love sparky comedies, this one’s for you’ GRAZIA

‘Who will love it? Want-it-funny lit-lovers’ GLAMOUR

‘An engaging read about finding yourself… I loved it’ DAILY MAIL

‘McFarlane’s writing will make you laugh out loud 5*’ SUNDAY EXPRESS

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‘A delicious feast of comic romance … Smart and funny’ SUNDAY MIRROR

‘[McFarlane] has pulled it out of the bag again, crafting an impassioned novel of female self-discovery … Jam-packed with quirky social satire that delights and entertains’ OK

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“Very very witty and funny. Left me in awe…a total gem.” (Marian Keyes)

“The funniest, most romantic book I've read since One Day.” (Lisa Jewell)

“I loved this book. It made me laugh and reminded me that anything's possible in love – and in everything else for that matter.” (Minnie Driver)

“I loved this: an original, genuinely funny, genuinely moving, modern love story.” (Katy Regan)

“Mhairi is darkly funny and quite, quite rude…You Had Me at Hello is a breath of tart, Northern air.” (Sarra Manning)

“Bitingly sharp and achingly funny…guaranteed to have you bent double. I absolutely loved it!” (Claudia Carroll)

About the Author

Sunday Times bestselling author Mhairi McFarlane was born in Scotland in 1976 and her unnecessarily confusing name is pronounced Vah-Ree. After some efforts at journalism, she started writing fiction and her debut, You Had Me at Hello, was an instant success. She’s since sold over 4.5 million copies of her books worldwide. She lives in Nottingham with a man and, sadly for the time being, no cat.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ HarperCollins
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ July 1 2025
  • Edition ‏ : ‎ Reissue
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 560 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0008749515
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0008749514
  • Item weight ‏ : ‎ 386 g
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 12.9 x 3.5 x 19.8 cm
  • 鶹 Rank: #346,912 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Customers find the book entertaining. They say the storytelling is utterly stellar and the plot line is entertaining. Readers also enjoy the author's writing.

"enjoy a book that takes my imagination into different directions as this one did..also appreciate a bit of humour in my read clever concept" Read more

"Funnier than I ever expected and an entertaining plot line. Great summer read if you are looking for one!..." Read more

"Loved this book, absolute treat! I was not sure what to expect, but was pleasantly surprised...could not put it down!" Read more

"...I've read many a book where the storytelling was utterly stellar, but the ending floundered about...." Read more

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Customers appreciate the content of the book. They mention they loved Adam and Delia. Readers also say the ending is just the bomb.

"Loved this book, absolute treat! I was not sure what to expect, but was pleasantly surprised...could not put it down!" Read more

"I loved Adam and Delia! That ending was just THE BOMB! as my grand-nieces would say!!!..." Read more

"...I had so many favourite lines. Totally not formulaic. You'll love Adam and Delia." Read more

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Customers find the book humorous, contemporary, and romantic.

"Funnier than I ever expected and an entertaining plot line. Great summer read if you are looking for one!..." Read more

"Funny, contemporary, romantic - a fabulous mix! A great find - I've just ordered all her books!!" Read more

"Excellent. Can't rave too much. Great modern British humour. I had so many favourite lines. Totally not formulaic. You'll love Adam and Delia." Read more

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  • Reviewed in Canada on June 28, 2019
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    Funnier than I ever expected and an entertaining plot line. Great summer read if you are looking for one! Definitely going to read more from this author.
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  • Reviewed in Canada on March 17, 2019
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    Loved this book, absolute treat! I was not sure what to expect, but was pleasantly surprised...could not put it down!
  • Reviewed in Canada on October 26, 2019
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    I loved Adam and Delia! That ending was just THE BOMB! as my grand-nieces would say!!! The story is a bit overly long, but Delia has a lot of growing to do, and London is just the place to do it in!

    McFarlane is the BOSS of great endings. I've read many a book where the storytelling was utterly stellar, but the ending floundered about. McFarlane's HEAs usually leave us readers with just enough to fuel our own imaginations. The only McFarlane ending thus far that I take issue with was in Who's That Girl?. Come on now! I wanted to see him come in the door and sweep her off her feet!!! I say: if McFarlane can write a novella sequel for You Had me at Hello, she should give us a treat and continue that cute story!

    No complaints here. It's Not Me, It's You had a ravishing ending! I have to say, Adam had me totally fooled, and towards the end, when he finally "pounced" I was "awwwwwing" for quite some time! Loved it!
  • Reviewed in Canada on November 6, 2020
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    Funny, contemporary, romantic - a fabulous mix! A great find - I've just ordered all her books!!
  • Reviewed in Canada on November 23, 2015
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    I had never read anything by this author and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Except for one minor "factual" error where the tortoise shell cat was a male, the book made me happy. I immediately downloaded other books by this author.
  • Reviewed in Canada on June 9, 2020
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    Still reading it.
  • Reviewed in Canada on November 5, 2015
    This author is new to me and I found her book delightful. Delia has been with Paul for 10 years and proposes to him, being a modern girl. Then she finds out about his other woman Celine. They break up and she flees to London to think about things, staying with her friend Emma. She builds a life there, but Paul pursues her. This book was written with relatable characters, a great sense of humour and warmth and style. I liked it a lot and will look for her other two books. A fun read.
  • Reviewed in Canada on July 21, 2016
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    Excellent. Can't rave too much. Great modern British humour. I had so many favourite lines. Totally not formulaic. You'll love Adam and Delia.

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  • Blonde Girl Reads
    5.0 out of 5 stars Classic British Chick Lit
    Reviewed in the United States on January 12, 2021
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    I'd not read Mhairi McFarlene's work before, but someone recommended her to me and I'm very pleased they did! This is classic British chick lit at its best, a tale of a young woman who thinks she wants one thing but actually needs something altogether different. If I had to characterize her work, I'd say McFarlane writes a grittier version of a Sophie Kinsella story, but with the same easy-reading style and relatability that makes it hard to put her books down. In It's Not Me it's You things start out pretty grim for poor Delia, who is a thoroughly likable and relatable character. She lacks in self-confidence and has plenty of wool pulled over her eyes. That is until she manages to spot the sunlight peaking through, and then pushes that wool right away to rise up as a new, improved version of herself. Thoroughly satisfying! I found this story sad at times, with an easy-going and gentle humor, but ultimately uplifting. Recommended for fans of classic British chick lit.
  • Noris Kern
    3.0 out of 5 stars Divertido, bem escrito
    Reviewed in Brazil on February 27, 2018
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    É um bom livro para se ler nas férias, bem escrito, bastante imaginativo, com bons personagens e tiradas inteligentes. O senão seria o fim, um pouco forçado. Mas recomendo como leitura divertida.
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  • Violette
    5.0 out of 5 stars She did it again!
    Reviewed in France on May 29, 2016
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    Cette auteure a un talent fou, c'est le troisième roman que je lis d'elle et elle se renouvelle à chaque fois.

    Dans cette histoire on a des accents nostalgiques du club des cinq, mais en mille fois plus drôle et mille fois plus romantique. Ses personnages sont attachants, et les dialogues sont tellement drôle qu'elle n'a pas besoin de nous dire que le couple tombe amoureux, nous aussi nous tombons amoureux d'eux parce qu'à chaque fois qu'ils échangent des dialogues, on éclate de rire avec eux.

    Je recommande vivement l'expérience.
  • selda
    5.0 out of 5 stars ´dzüܳ
    Reviewed in Germany on January 11, 2015
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    Delia liebt Paul und ist fest entschlossen, mit ihm ihr Leben zu verbringen. Am Tag ihres zehnjährigen Jubiläums will sie Nägel mit Köpfen machen und entschliesst sich zu einem unkonventionellen Schritt. Statt einem Happy End offenbart sich, dass Paul, der für sie ein unerschütterlicher Fels in der Brandung war, sie betrügt. Damit bricht alles zusammen. Delia stellt sich, ihre Zukunft und die letzten zehn Jahre in Frage.

    Mhairi McFarlane kreiert nicht nur eine wunderbar liebenswürdige Delia, sie erzählt die Geschichte einer Emanzipation ehrlich, lebendig und lebensbejahend. Sie ist dabei noch unglaublich witzig.

    Das ist eins dieser Bücher, das gut unterhält und dabei unter die Haut geht. Es inspiriert, die vertagten Träume auszugraben und ins Leben zu bringen.
  • Colleen
    5.0 out of 5 stars Another Good One
    Reviewed in Australia on October 16, 2022
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    Mhairi McFarlane never disappoints me. Her stories weave a tale around its main characters that is interesting, enticing and believable. Her humour brings life to the characters and the situations they find themselves in. I loved all the personalities and the endings are always worth waiting for.