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For the kid who leaves a wet towel wadded up on the floor or forgets to put a new roll on the toilet-paper thingy, witty parenting writer and etiquette columnist Catherine Newman provides the ultimate guidebook of essential life skills for kids.

Jam-packed with tips, tricks, and skills—all illustrated in an irresistible graphic novel–style—this book shows kids just how easy it is to free themselves from parental nagging and become more dependable—and they’ll like themselves better, too! They’ll learn how to deal with dirty rooms, care for pets and cactuses, stick up for somebody, and fold a T-shirt. They’ll even get a crash course on using the kitchen (including how to turn a 33-cent package of ramen into dinner) and a boot camp for lending a hand outside the house (mowing, shoveling, and fixing something loose has never been easier). This handbook to becoming
beyond helpfulpromises that every kid can be a valued and valuable member of the grown-up world.

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More from Storey Publishing Help kids express themselves while showing empathy, care, and generosity towards others. 125 ideas encourage practicing kindness, compassion and empathy, and bringing more happiness into daily life. This lively guide written for kids features practical information on what makes cats tick and how to care for them, along with rewarding ways to play and bond with a feline friend. This fun dog care guide teaches kids about dog health, training, and safety, and features hands-on activities that promote play and bonding with a canine companion. Fifty-seven family-friendly recipes make cooking healthy meals easy and fun for kids. They’ll love to prepare, serve, and eat these simple and delicious dishes. In this inspirational book for kids aged 5 and up, 125 ideas encourage practicing kindness, cultivating compassion and empathy, and bringing more happiness into daily life.

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“Catherine Newman has created a starting place for loving, productive conversations about independence, competence, and kindness.”— Jessica Lahey, best-selling author of The Gift of Failure

“Kids will delight in this witty, clear, and fun-to-read handbook. And parents will rejoice in having Catherine Newman as a wise and warm partner in teaching our children nearly everything they should know — but don’t want to hear about from us!” — Dr. Lisa Damour, best-selling author of
Untangled and Under Pressure

“An illustrated guide that teaches tweens (who aren't eager to learn anything from
you) life skills such as managing money, doing the dishes, and addressing an envelope.”Parents

“Geared toward kids—but honestly, everyone in the house should brush up on these cleaning and life skills.”—
Real Simple

“Emphasizes why these skills are so important for kids to master and how good they’ll feel once they do. The illustrations reflect diversity and avoid gender stereotypes. Entertaining way to teach valuable skills that every kid (and adult) needs to know.”—
Booklist

“Thissuccinctand entertaining guidebookdescribes life skills with step-by-step instructions... No matter who is readingand enjoying the book,the skillsare fleshed out with easy-to-understand stepsand engaging illustrations.” —
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The Stuff You Need to Know to Land on Your Feet

Jam-packed with tips, tricks, and skills from best-selling author and advice columnist Catherine Newman, you'll learn how to manage whatever life throws your way. Your newfound independence is sure to make you - and the people around you - very happy.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B07WDSXJ8T
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Storey Publishing, LLC
  • Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 26 2020
  • Edition ‏ : ‎ Illustrated
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 21.6 MB
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 160 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1635861839
  • Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Grade level ‏ : ‎ 5 - 9
  • Reading age ‏ : ‎ 10 - 14 years
  • 鶹 Rank: #430,063 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.7 out of 5 stars 1,700 ratings

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My 8yo son is literally obsessed with this book. He had taken it from the school library, but insisted that I buy him his own. He runs to get it every time he's doing something "new": he follows steps how to write address on an envelope, he's even made scrambled eggs! I'm so proud :) Great book!
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  • Reviewed in Canada on November 27, 2022
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    My 8yo son is literally obsessed with this book. He had taken it from the school library, but insisted that I buy him his own. He runs to get it every time he's doing something "new": he follows steps how to write address on an envelope, he's even made scrambled eggs! I'm so proud :) Great book!
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    My 8yo son LOVES it

    Reviewed in Canada on November 27, 2022
    My 8yo son is literally obsessed with this book. He had taken it from the school library, but insisted that I buy him his own. He runs to get it every time he's doing something "new": he follows steps how to write address on an envelope, he's even made scrambled eggs! I'm so proud :) Great book!
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  • Reviewed in Canada on May 31, 2020
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    Catherine Newman’s How to Be a Person is as deftly charming as everything she writes. (Readers who know her as Real Simple’s etiquette columnist will recognizer her adroit combining of common sense with generous warmth.) Debbie Fong’s lively illustrations make every activity suggested here seem like one kids will want to dive right into. Perhaps more important, the book is both broadly inclusive and effortlessly kind, communicating the ways skill-building can help kids develop the optimism and sense of competence needed to make the world a better place.
  • Reviewed in Canada on June 13, 2020
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    Fun and geared towards young adults / kids. Great way to teach them skills while making it fun!
  • Reviewed in Canada on July 13, 2022
    Kid review: My 14yo thoroughly enjoyed it. He said it was well written (I think because its funny) and in specific had to find and share with me "how to fold a fitted sheet". He had fun deliberately failing the pop quizzes (almost as good as passing them!).

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  • Maria Sh!
    5.0 out of 5 stars 🫧 Chores Made Fun 🫧
    Reviewed in Germany on January 3, 2025
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    As a mom of two 9-year-olds, I can’t recommend this book enough. How to Be a Person has made a huge difference in our home. My daughters now make their beds, cook simple meals, and even do laundry—and they actually enjoy it!

    What I love most is how this book gives kids the freedom to choose what they want to tackle. It’s clear, fun, and makes them feel proud of what they accomplish. My girls have gained confidence and independence while learning how to take care of themselves, the house, and each other.

    This isn’t just about chores—it’s about giving kids a sense of responsibility and showing them that they’re capable of so much. If you’re looking for a way to inspire your kids, this book is a must-have! Even us adults enjoyed learning a few tips from the book!
  • Kelly Close
    5.0 out of 5 stars MUST-READ -- the perfect present to you, your kids, your friends, neighbors, fellow citizens
    Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2020
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    Two of us in our family have already read this book "How to Be a Person" from cover to cover.

    Here's my review, from a parent: I liked this book so much because it was very encouraging, and felt like anyone can read and learn. There's no noise, just beautiful pages where the tone of the writer is so disarming. It's like the author cheers you on in some parts, not rah-rah, but basically really expeditiously, explaining clearly and succinctly how to do stuff. In the process, in between and around the lines, she explains how to be a better person. It had very useful stuff and LOTS of clarity about how to do things and how not to do them. It's upbeat, and also firm, and very clear about what to NOT do.

    Some of this book is quietly hilarious - as in the advice is earnest but also funny, like how not to answer the phone (as in you can't just pick up the phone and not say anything) and how to address an envelope (like, the actual address goes in the middle). While as an adult, I should've learned everything here when I was younger, I love seeing it all super efficiently now, so I can teach it in a way that has far more clarity and far fewer words! (like, the best way to pack, the best way to save money).

    I loved thinking about "How to be a Person" as a parent and figuring out what to actively ask our young teens to think about, like volunteering (this is taught in the how to make money section), like tipping.

    Basically, all the pieces feel action-oriented and actionable. It's like the author is super-powering our kids (and us), writing to us (all) in a way that is so authentic, and showing us that we all can be better people by stopping some things and starting some things and noticing some things.

    The book is divided into a six parts, and the part I loved the most was how to be happy. It's really beautiful and a little bit heart-wrenching.

    This is the new birthday present, baby book, cool thing to send someone to give as a present to their child or teacher or neighbor - everyone will like it themselves and will love giving it as a present to someone they know and love.

    Here's the review from Lola, 13: The book "How to be a person" was very informative, and the drawings were nice. It got straight to the point. It was very organized and easy to read. It gave good life skills, like how to use a Swiss army knife, how to light a fire, how to tie knots, how to get out a stain, how to make spaghetti, and other skills kids should know. 10/10 would recommend :)
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    Kelly Close
    5.0 out of 5 stars
    MUST-READ -- the perfect present to you, your kids, your friends, neighbors, fellow citizens

    Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2020
    Two of us in our family have already read this book "How to Be a Person" from cover to cover.

    Here's my review, from a parent: I liked this book so much because it was very encouraging, and felt like anyone can read and learn. There's no noise, just beautiful pages where the tone of the writer is so disarming. It's like the author cheers you on in some parts, not rah-rah, but basically really expeditiously, explaining clearly and succinctly how to do stuff. In the process, in between and around the lines, she explains how to be a better person. It had very useful stuff and LOTS of clarity about how to do things and how not to do them. It's upbeat, and also firm, and very clear about what to NOT do.

    Some of this book is quietly hilarious - as in the advice is earnest but also funny, like how not to answer the phone (as in you can't just pick up the phone and not say anything) and how to address an envelope (like, the actual address goes in the middle). While as an adult, I should've learned everything here when I was younger, I love seeing it all super efficiently now, so I can teach it in a way that has far more clarity and far fewer words! (like, the best way to pack, the best way to save money).

    I loved thinking about "How to be a Person" as a parent and figuring out what to actively ask our young teens to think about, like volunteering (this is taught in the how to make money section), like tipping.

    Basically, all the pieces feel action-oriented and actionable. It's like the author is super-powering our kids (and us), writing to us (all) in a way that is so authentic, and showing us that we all can be better people by stopping some things and starting some things and noticing some things.

    The book is divided into a six parts, and the part I loved the most was how to be happy. It's really beautiful and a little bit heart-wrenching.

    This is the new birthday present, baby book, cool thing to send someone to give as a present to their child or teacher or neighbor - everyone will like it themselves and will love giving it as a present to someone they know and love.

    Here's the review from Lola, 13: The book "How to be a person" was very informative, and the drawings were nice. It got straight to the point. It was very organized and easy to read. It gave good life skills, like how to use a Swiss army knife, how to light a fire, how to tie knots, how to get out a stain, how to make spaghetti, and other skills kids should know. 10/10 would recommend :)
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  • Jen Rich
    5.0 out of 5 stars Good book for younger children
    Reviewed in the United States on May 17, 2025
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    This is a great book, with great tips and creative layout, but I do think it is best for younger children.
  • Stellar10
    5.0 out of 5 stars Navigating Adulthood with Wit and Wisdom
    Reviewed in the United States on December 29, 2023
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    First of all, can I just say this book is GREAT! We have kids between the ages of 8-15 and it is reading suited for every one of them!

    Let’s get into some more details:
    "How to Be a Person: 65 Hugely Useful, Super-Important Skills to Learn before You're Grown Up" is a delightful guide for young individuals embarking on the journey to adulthood. The author's engaging and humorous writing style makes the learning process enjoyable, turning what could be mundane topics into entertaining and memorable lessons. Covering a diverse range of skills, from basic life hacks to crucial interpersonal abilities, the book is well-organized into 65 concise chapters, making it easy to navigate and allowing readers to focus on specific skills of interest. Each skill discussed in the book has direct relevance to everyday life, empowering readers with knowledge that can be immediately applied. While the target audience is broad, encompassing those 'before they're grown up,' some topics may be more suited for specific age groups. Additionally, the book covers a wide range of skills but might provide only surface-level exploration, prompting readers interested in deeper insights to seek additional resources. Overall, "How to Be a Person" stands as an invaluable handbook, offering practical wisdom and fostering a sense of independence as readers prepare for the challenges of adulthood.

    Should you get it? Yes!
  • Caro
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great book
    Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2020
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    I ordered copies of this book for our three younger grandchildren. It is so vell-done and appealing.
    The youngest (only 8) really took to it, excitingly telling and showing me what she is learning. She's one of the most curious children I've known. Another one will probably use it sometime as a reference book, and one may not use it at all. It is worth it to me to have given the books to all three.
    I wish I had had it for our children when they were preteens and teenagers.

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